*A post from my other blog.*
Falling in-love maybe as easy as writing ABC’s on a blank sheet of paper.. But some people don’t just write down, they tend to focus on the other sides of the ABC’s rather than just writing it down. They choose. What color of ballpen they should use, what kind of paper, why they are doing it and stuff.
I mean, do they really need to peel every thing one by one rather than just go with the flow?
Earlier, I asked a friend about a topic that I should blog because I feel like blogging about something and she suggest that why don’t I state my opinion about best friends falling in-love; should they be forever best friends to keep the friendship alive or to follow their hearts desires?
Actually, I really don’t know. As I stare blankly at this sheet of “Add New Post” I can’t think of any idea on what to say to her. But I kind of promised her that I’ll do it. So, I got no choice.
Having your own best friend is like adding another close sibling to your real family. Admit it or not, we were more like close to them rather than our brothers or sisters. They were the ones who keeps your deepest secrets, you share everything with each other (maybe that’s why they end up falling in love), some got this thing called “platonic relationship”.
I remember what my religion professor told us regarding relationship stages. According to him, it should start as “FRIENDS”. You should bond with him/her with no cruel or malice intentions.. friends. This is the getting to know the light side stage. And after being friends, of course “YOU SHOULD CHOOSE”. You cannot pick all of them. You must choose one deserving person whom where you had felt the ‘spark’. And I think, your best-friend is no exception at this stage. You had chosen her/him and you had felt the magic you were looking for.
There are two or three or many sides on every thing. No. Not every thing. But some of them.
If your best friend has the same feeling:
- VERY GOOD! #Echos
- No problems at all! No. Not all. I mean, maybe sometimes but not everytime.
- You’ll get to express you’re true feelings in a sweet way.
- and most of all, Inspiration!
If you both don’t work as a couple:
- Situations can be very awkward.
- Depression.
- Things will never be the same again.
Opinion: This situation shouldn’t be like this. Remember, you were Strangers before you became Friends before you became Best Friends. Why bother keep the awkward situation when the meeting and knowing each other is much longer than you’re sweet years together?
If your best friend is taken and still makes you expect on something:
- I think, he/she should decide on what HE/she really wants.
- It can’t be the two of you loving him/her.
- It can’t be the two of you he/she loves.
- There’s always the word, CHOOSE.
If you keep on expecting:
- STOP! You’re just hurting yourself.
- If you really are his/her best friend, tell him/her what you feel.
- Make him/her realize.
- Make him/her decide on what’s right and on WHAT HE/SHE WANTS.
*When did I became a love expert? Srsly? HAHAHA.*
Well, this stuffs were just from the movies I watched, friends’ situations, and some were pulled out from the innermost part of my brain. #ECHOS! I’m just stating my opinion from what I see and hear.
So if you have the same situation as stated, Hello there. Hehe. :)
- You love him/her? Tell her! Life’s too short.
- He/She dumped you? Life goes on. God is still writing your love story.
- Can’t live without him/her? Is that a JOKE? Joke. :)
Just go with the flow and take life easy as writing ABC’s on a blank sheet of paper. Who knows? Maybe after you read this someone comes in your life and add some meaning to your letters. :) <3